ho~ usually blogging about anime... how about i blog about how anime relates with life...
nowadays.. i keep having the feeling of loneliness creeping up on me... really lonely... will start hugging my bag then... argh... dunno why too.. but that is when i start pondering over so many things...
why is that teacher so hated? why does she appear irritating? maturity, what is it? how to enjoy life? how to be successful?
for some, i have found that answer.. well it is just MY answer, not urs.. but let me share..
i have got a teacher who appears irritating and demanding.. most of the people doesn't like her... could be due to her voice? could be not... then i start observing her... (yeah i like to observe people, will elaborate more later) and i found out that, to me, she is transparent, i could see her intention and thoughts for her every actions..
well i would not say this is 100% accurate, but this is the impression she gives me with body language. she wants everything to be in her way, without hearing to people advice... she wants to be "good" to us, but her heart doesn't... earlier i said that anime relating life right? yeah and there it goes.. in anime, even though it is just an animation, it has interesting and exciting plots, sometimes even teaching us the way of life.... some i found really does seems true... at first i thought that when u do good, NO matter if ur heart wants or anot, people will appreciate it.. but it appears not... we can only succeed if we put our heart and soul into it...
and yeah one last thing is, i find she is very immature.... maturity, what is it?
a lot ppl say a mature person does not act childish.... i think otherwise.... i realise that a lot ppl judge a person maturity by his actions and words... but i tend to judge the person maturity by his thoughts... i would not say i am very matured... but i have a more mature thnking than most of the people... and what is maturity? to me maturity is the ability to judge right from wrong... not that everything has right and wrong... but the best possible action to be taken... thats maturity right?
well i still dunno how to enjoy life, but i think i know how to be successful, because all the successful people say the same thing... hard work, high expectations, grab opportunity, get out of comfort zone, take a step at a time.... and many many more... dam i forgot some...
anyway... just cant stand people who are childish, people sing song, people crack jokes, why wanna put these people down? they might not sing well, but they enjoy doing it.. so u enjoy putting people down?
o ya in facebook i put this line down "it is not the laughter that matters, but what u laughed at" yeah... this is so meaningful, btw i thought this out myself.... just hope that someone gets the hint.... actually this is to suan those arrogant people... i always say i am a person who likes to show off but i am not arrogant... many people reply "whats the difference?!"
ok here is the difference, imagine person A and person B.... B talks to A, and A looks down on B due to some reasons.... and then just laughed through his nose on everything B said.... well that is arrogance, and the arrogant one is A.
what is show off? it is A and a bunch of group of friends, A scored full marks for the super hard difficult test while everyone just failed badly.... then A run around happily and keep showing his score to his friends.... A is being a show-off.... but is that bad? if u dun be happy about what u achieved, then what for u achieve? then u expect A to be sitting down there and smile to himself? is that satisfaction? cant his bunch of friends just praise him for once? is praising so difficult? are their face so thick? and by asking these questions, is being matured.
o ya... i also saw one advertisement ytd, it was about giving excuses.... that was a great advertisement, NEVER GIVE EXCUSES IF U WANNA BE SUCCESSFUL!
ok thats all, and end of promo is just 13 days away!!
Cheers~
Zach